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THE INNER COMMONPLACE
QUOTATIONS FROM A LIFETIME OF COLLECTION AND REFLECTION
TITLE QUOTATION AUTHOR SOURCE SUBJECT
IF YOU'RE BORN TO H | 451 | If you're born to hang, you'll never drown. | Irish Saying | Neil Langley | Fate |
I HAVE BEEN THROUGH | 452 | I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened. | Mark Twain | Unknown | Worry |
WE CANNOT DO GREAT | 453 | We cannot do great things on this earth. We can only do small things with great love. | Mother Teresa | Unknown | Love |
REMEMBER BY C. ROSS | 454 | Remember by C. Rossetti (1849)
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you planned:
Only remember me: you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than you should remember and be sad. | C. Rossetti | Mom | Remembrance |
A ROCK IS FORMED AN | 455 | A rock is formed and a rock will vanish. | Richard Carlson | Buddhist Saying | Impermanence |
NOTHING GIVES A FEA | 556 | Nothing gives a fearful man more courage than another's fear. | Umberto Eco | Umberto Eco | Fear |
DRUNKENESS NEITHER | 557 | Drunkeness neither keeps a secret, nor observes a promise. | Miguel Cervantes | Miguel Cervantes | Drink |
AD ASTRA PER ASPERA | 460 | Ad astra per aspera.
To the stars via adversity.
Alabama State motto. | Unknown | Road Trip | Adversity |
UNA SONRISA NO TIEN | 559 | Una sonrisa no tiene prisa.
A smile isn't hurried.
For Eva Martinez Gomez, a friend. | Eric Pettigrew | DEP | Smiling |
ABSENCE SHARPENS LO | 602 | Absence sharpens love; presence strengthens it. | Unknown | Proverb | Love |
YOU KNOW A DREAM IS | 561 | You know a dream is like a river, ever changing as it flows.
And a dreamer's just a vessel that must follow where it goes.
Trying to learn from what's behind you and never knowing what's in store
makes each day a constant battle just to stay between the shores.
And I will sail my vessel 'til the river runs dry.
Like a bird upon the wind, these waters are my sky.
I'll never reach my destination if I never try,
So I will sail my vessel 'til the river runs dry.
Too many times we stand aside and let the water slip away.
To what we put off 'til tomorrow has now become today.
So don't you sit upon the shore and say you're satisfied.
Choose to chance the rapids and dare to dance the tides. | Garth Brooks | Unknown | Dreams |
WHEN YOU HEAR HOOF | 562 | When you hear hoof beats, think horses, not zebras.
Eg. Look first for the simple explanation. | Simon Singh | Big Bang | Diagnosis |
CONFIDENCE SHARED I | 462 | Confidence shared is better than confidence in yourself. | Mike Krzyzewski | Unknown | Confidence |
AN ARMY OF DEER LED | 463 | An army of deer led by a lion will defeat an army of lions led by a deer. | Calvin Hill | Mike Krzyzewski | Leadership |
I THANK YOU FOR MY | 464 | I thank you for my friends
And most specially,
For my best friend.
Thirty seven years ago,
When Lily and I were wed,
I did not know who she was.
Nor she me.
Nor much about ourselves.
Nor anything about marriage at all.
The learning was often to be painful,
Although without it
There would have been nothing.
Somewhow we made it through,
And it would be wrong not to give ourselves
Any credit. But tell me this:
Utterly innocent back then,
How did I know
In my blind ignorance
That Lily- more different
Than I could imagine-
Was right for me?
I cannot explain it
Unless you were invisibly by my side.
Guiding me while I ,like Jacob, was unaware. And I, like Jacob, must now also exclaim:
"Surely God was in this place, and I,
I did not know it." | M. Scott Peck | Golf and the Spirit | Marriage |
YOU CAN ACHIEVE THE | 465 | You can achieve the impossible by depending on your friends. | Mike Krzyzewski | Mike Krzyzewski | Friends |
YOU HEAR YOU FORGET | 466 | You hear, you forget.
You see, you remember.
You do, you understand. | Mike Krzyzewski | Mike Krzyzewski | Remembrance |
IT IS VERY EASY FOR | 467 | It is very easy for me to remember things, as long as you remind me. | Lily Peck | Golf and the Spirit | Memory |
PERFECTION IS FINAL | 468 | Perfection is finally attained not when there is no longer anything to add but when there is no longer anything to take away. | Antoine de Saint Exupery | Atlantic Monthly | Perfection |
MAN IS THE ONLY ANI | 469 | Man is the only animal burdened with the unbearable knowledge that he will die. | Sue Erikson Bloland | Atlantic Monthly | Mortality |
THE LOVE THAT I HAV | 470 | The Love That I Have Is All That I Have
The life that I have
Is all that I have
And the life that I
have is yours.
The love that I have
Of the life that I have
Is yours and yours
and yours.
A sleep I shall have
A rest I shall have
Yet death will be but a pause.
For the peace of my
years in the long
green grass
Will be yours and
yours and yours. | Oliver Marks | Head of SOE | Love |
OSEZ TOUJOURS. CEDE | 471 | Osez toujours. Cedez parfois. Renoncez jamais.
Always dare. Sometimes give in. Never give up. | Fabienne | Club Med | Perseverance |
THE INCOMMUNICABLE | 472 | The incommunicable part of us is the pasture of God. | Pierre Tielhard de Chardin | Unknown | God |
IF YOU BELIEVE YOU | 473 | If you believe you can, or if you believe you can't, you're right. | Henry Ford | Almost Like a Whale | Self Belief |
IF A MAN WILL BEGIN | 474 | If a man will begin with certainties, he will end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he will end with certainties. | Francis Bacon | Advancement of Learning | Self Belief |
LIFE IS A SERIES OF | 475 | Life is a series of successful mistakes. | Steve Jones | Almost Like a Whale | Life |
A SETBACK IS A SETU | 476 | A setback is a setup for a comeback and a set-to which will upset unless you backup and backoff. | Sue Ward | Phonecard Services | Conflict |
EPITAPH: HE DID NOT | 477 | Epitaph: He did nothing in particular, and in this he did excel. | Bishop Butts | Jean Stafford-Smith | Talent |
COURAGE DOESN'T ALW | 478 | Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying: "I will try again tomorrow." | Mary Anne Radmacher | Unknown | Courage |
OF COURSE I BELIEVE | 479 | Of course I believe in free will. Do we have a choice? | Isaac Bashevis Singer | Unknown | Free Will |
DEATH IS ONLY ONE O | 480 | Death is only one of many ways to lose your life. | Alvah Simon | Unknown | Death |
I RETURNED AND SAW | 481 | I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all. | George Orwell | Ecclesiastes | Chance |
ENNUI IS THE POISON | 482 | Ennui is the poison of the soul. | Jean Rouaud | Fields of Glory | Boredom |
THE PAST IS NEVER D | 483 | The past is never dead; it is not even past. | William Greider | One World | The Past |
YOU WILL BE BLAMED | 484 | You will be blamed more for failure than you will be praised for ingenuity. | Pauline Melville | Unknown | Blame |
ANY CHANGE IS THE B | 485 | Any change is the beginning of disintegration. | Pauline Melville | Unknown | Change |
ONLY A FOOL TESTS T | 486 | Only a fool tests the depth of the water with both feet. | African proverb | Unknown | Daring |
T IS FOR TALENT AN | 487 | T is for Talent and Trust
E is for Enthusiasm and Empathy
A is for Attitude and Appreciation
M is for Motivation and Membership.
Every individual on the team must HAVE the Talent to make a difference, the Enthusiasm to make it happen, the Attitude to overcome obstacles, and the Motivation to persevere, and every individual must FEEL a Trust in his teammates that they can be counted on and will deliver, Empathy for their situation, their point of view and their weaknesses, Appreciation for their accomplishments, and a feeling of Membership no matter how great or seemingly insignificant the role.
A Team is never eternal; it is a holy creation of the Moment. | Eric Pettigrew | DEP | Team |
THOSE WHO VOTE DECI | 488 | Those who vote decide nothing.
Those who count the votes decide everything. | Josef Stalin | Unknown | Power |
INDIFFERENCE IS MOR | 489 | Indifference is more potent than anger or fear. | Richard Pells | IHT | Indifference |
WHERE WERE YOU WHEN | 490 | Where were you when the pages were blank?
As quoted by Arthur Miller. | Solon Curry | Harper's Magazine | Criticism |
OZYMANDIAS OF EGYPT | 491 | OZYMANDIAS OF EGYPT
I met a traveler from an antique land
Who said: Two vast and trunkless legs of stone
Stand in the desert...Near them, on the sand,
Half sunk, a shattered visage lies, whose form
And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,
Tell that its sculptor well those passions read
Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,
The hand that mocked the, and the heart that fed:
And on the pedestal these words appear:
"My name is Ozymandias, king of kings:
Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair!"
Nothing beside remains. Round the decay
Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare,
The lone and level sand stretch far away. | Percy Bysshe Shelley | Ozymandias | Vanity |
THE ROAD NOT TAKEN
| 492 | THE ROAD NOT TAKEN
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference. | Robert Frost | Poems | Choice |
BENEATH THE SKIN OF | 493 | Beneath the skin of the ancient warrior
Beats the heart of the young brave. | Eric Pettigrew | DEP | Youth |
YOUR CAPACITY FOR P | 494 | Your capacity for pain is a direct function of how much money you have in your bank account. | Elwyn Wong | Email | Pain |
I HAVE GIVEN MY GEN | 495 | I have given my genius to life; to art I have but given my talent. | Oscar Wilde | Unknown | Talent |
FACED WITH THE CHOI | 496 | Faced with the choice between changing and proving
there is no need to do so, most people get busy on the proof. | John Kenneth Galbraith | Mom | Change |
TWO SHIPS
NO LONGE | 498 | TWO SHIPS
No longer two ships pass in dead of night
Their signals, crossed as if by unseen hand,
Lead them to dreamlike moments
Torn by hasty flight.
While holiday's bells toll away enraptured hours
The boy sets sail to be a man
And leaves in port behind
His thoughts, in part,
In whole, his heart forever touched.
July 1976 | Eric Pettigrew | Poem | Love |
FRAGILE SHOOTS
YOU | 499 | FRAGILE SHOOTS
You have made this a bittersweet spring
Raising feelings as fragile as tender shoots
Growing in the shade of old oak trees
Petals that bloom and fade
And fall softly
A lingering reminder of life
A sweet testament to death
Happy.
Sad.
May, 1979 | Eric Pettigrew | Poem | Fragility |
BEAUTIFUL SPRING
BE | 500 | BEAUTIFUL SPRING
Behind this door a garden lies
A field of flowers that need no rain
Forever green though tended not
And rarely seen, though ne'er forgot
And in this field a maiden cries
With tears of laughter and of pain
For memories of lessons taught
And precious days of passion sought
And though this door is always shut
That no one else may look within
Alone this maiden sows the soil
With measured sighs and patient toil
For behind this door a secret's kept
That only Nature could have done
For whatever else that life may bring
There blooms the beauty of that spring.
July, 1986 | Eric Pettigrew | Poem | Passion |
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